Welcome Shorty, I have many of the same problems you do! Nothing seems to quite fit. There's some kind of custom pattern service listed on this site that I've been meaning to try though I thought most of the styles they were offering looked out of date. I still plan to try them at some point, maybe I'll change my mind once I see how it looks and feels

Good luck in your search for clothes that make you happy and let us know the brand if you find something!